In China, most parents keep reminding their children of the great expectation. It is natural for every parent wants their kids to stand out. But the traditional parents often make plans for their children, which is the dream that they hadn’t realized before, so they need their offspring to continue their unfinished dream. Most parents haven’t realized what they do is hurting their babies, as they take away these young people’s freedom. Every child has their own thought and right. As the complete individuality, they have their features and interest. Parents’ expectation sometimes takes away their speciality. Wise parents should not put their willingness to children, but let them make their own choice.